Rejections

Why is it that we place so much stock on being accepted to publishers who we do not benefit financially from. I understand the importance of having your name in books. It looks good, builds up a name for yourself...but in the end, who benefits from all of it? The person publishing the anthologies and collecting the royalty checks which is not the individual artists but the person who said yes or no to your submissions. So why let one person make you feel good or bad because they decide that a select group will fit together better than others. Maybe I just tell myself this to make myself sleep better at night but I have confidence my writing is good and no matter how many rejection letters I receive, I need to keep hold of the fact that it has no bearing on me as an author. I just do not fit what they are looking for. Plus i deserve to be paid for my hard work and genius. lol.... not watch someone else profit from it.